There’s nothing better (in mine & Sophie’s opinions) than wandering around cemeteries reading and photographing old graves and monuments. For us it is history with a personal view, the lives (and mostly deaths!) of real people and sometimes their families, chiselled into headstones. Names, ages, dates and symbols to be pondered on, sometimes researched (googled 🙂 ) and kept for posterity in digital files, while they crumble away in the graveyards over the years.
We decided a few weekends ago to visit a couple of cemeteries in Sunderland, firstly Grangetown cemetery. Although we have been there before, we like to go in spring as it has rows of pink-blossom trees through it and we were on our annual blossom-tree hunt! Unfortunately the blossom had yet to bloom so we didn’t spend long there. They also have an Angel of Grief so I shot that instead.

The Angel of Grief is an 1894 sculpture by William Wetmore Story for the grave of his wife Emelyn Story and the original can be found at the Protestant Cemetery in Rome. Its full title bestowed by Mr.Story was The Angel of Grief Weeping Over the Dismantled Altar of Life, a bit of a mouthful, but I think he was probably feeling depressed. He never sculpted again after his Mrs’s death, except for this monument to her. He is quoted as saying “It represents the angel of Grief, in utter abandonment, throwing herself with drooping wings and hidden face over a funeral altar. It represents what I feel. It represents Prostration. Yet to do it helps me.” Better than Prozac then.
The statue has been replicated in many cemeteries across the world, there is even a Flickr group dedicated to them you can visit HERE and the image has also been used in popular culture, such as in an album cover for the band Nightwish’s album Once (2004) and in the 2012 film The Woman in Black.
The one in Sunderland is dedicated to William Frederick Larkin by his wife Carrie.
The angel’s left arm has been broken off midway up the forarm sadly, which is a great shame, so I photographed her so it didn’t show. I mean, what lady wants her bad bits in photo’s, even if she’s distraught?
I am not sure if they are related but there is also a lovely memorial to a Major Larkin in this cemetary, but I haven’t yet found anything out about him.
We then went to visit Mere Knowles Cemetery as this was a new one to us. It was opened in July 1856 due to older cemetaries becoming overcrowded and a health hazard as a result of the cholera epidemic that swept through Sunderland in the 1830’s.
There isn’t a carpark (that we could find) at the cemetery so we parked in Morrisons supermarket car park where Sophie became enamoured of some trees wrapped in green netting, not sure what they’re being protected from!

We walked up to the cemetery through the back way alongside a little stream.
Along the path laid part of a sad little headstone
but plenty of cheery flowers in the grounds

The first burial at Mere Knolls cemetery was mariner’s daughter Mary Ann Wood, 19, who was laid to rest at the site on July 4, 1856. There are quite a lot of memorials and one of my favourites, (mosaics being a hobby of mine) was this unusual cross

Not sure who Barbara was a good and faithful servant to, probably her husband, different times folks, different times!
There’s are too chapels in the grounds, both very similar so will just show the one
though neither are in use. In part two we’ll have a look at them in detail as they have some wonderful stone- carved heads to see.
That’s all for now folks, stay tooned for part 2!
I loved this post as I too like to go to cemeteries with my camera. My local is Redhill in Arnold UK. And Rock Cemetery on Mansfield Road in Nottingham UK.
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They are fascinating places for sure!
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I’ve added some on a post for you from the cemetery I mentioned.
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that works, you might need to change the link on your avatar.
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Thank you.
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I absolutely love cemeteries. Especially old ones. I love walking through them and making up stories about the people who died. What were their lives like? How did they die?
That angel of grief sculpture is fascinating! And you photos are amazing as always! 🍻💖
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Thanks Nicole, 🙂
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I used to wander around Nunhead Cemetery in London, where my grandparents are buried. It has been ‘left to nature’ in the main now. So I naturally enjoyed your trip here.
Oh, and ‘faithful servant’ usually refers to being a servant of God, I believe. It is on many old graves.
Best wishes, Pete.
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Ah right, it’s the first time I’ve read it on a grave.
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As Choppy’s favorite place to visit is Potter’s Field, I guess I spend more time in a cemetery than I think I do!
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Plenty of bones for her 🙂
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I hadn’t even thought about that possibility (and I am going to make sure she doesn’t pick up anything bone-like next time we’re up there).
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ha!
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I hope there was space for Barb, more so than in the text 🙂
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Me too! 😀
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Impressive and fascinated
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Cool, cheers Missis.
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Have a good Wednesday 😀
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You too!
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Rather predictably, I’m far more interested in the words than the statuary when I visit a cemetery. It’s good to be made to look at the bits that last the longest.
The chapel is almost identical to the chapels in my local cemetery, neither of which is used any more.
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I think it’s a thing, most of the cemetery’s we visit are very similar in layout.
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To be honest, I don’t visit many. Only the local one and the one where my relatives are buried. They’re quite different from one another.
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I’m glad to see my husband and I aren’t the only ones fascinated with graveyards 🙂 Love that shot of the Major’s grave – that sure got my wheels turning. All the rest were gorgeous as well. Great post.
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Thanks! 😊
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The Angel of Grief Weeping Over the Dismantled Altar of Life…I love it…great shot…the head and the blue sky….love a good graveyard me…
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I’ve another coming up in a while, am way behind on my posts as I keep going out to shoot things! Cheers Clare 😀
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Loved the Angel of Grief – confess I’ve never heard of it, but will keep my eyes open. Larkin must have been quite a lad to be so decorated – and it seems he ended up in the RAF… Cemeteries – so many stories…
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I know, we have a lot of sea-related and miner explosion related ones in our graveyards.
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Who knew going to cemeteries could be so fun? Seriously though, I do love all the old gravestones. This was a peaceful and delightful stroll, Fraggle. I’m looking forward to part 2. Hugs.
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Thanks Teagan.
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Such lovely photos. If they could only know!
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Thanks Jay.
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The light in the cemetary is just perfect… so gentle and silent that feels as an being from another time. Loved too the lolipop trees, I think in them in a way to say to the trees that their splendor in green is not forgotten. : ) (well, I look it artistic, probably it is functional)
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Cheers Francis, 😊
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A very interesting mix of sadness and beauty. I often find the two go together a lot.
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True that. Cheers VB
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I love the VB nickname.
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Never seen a tree being netted that way. Quite curious..
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We thought so too!
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There is always something intriguing about old cemeteries. And Mere Knowkes looks like a very special one. A beautiful post.
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Thanks Otto
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Lol!😄 I just love how you started this post. Hehehe. You and Sophie sound like my kind of ladies if there’s nothing better to do than hang out at the cemetery. We can be cementary homies!❤❤❤
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Hah yes, probably doing another one today. ⚰️⚰️
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Sounds AWESOME!!!😁 You rock, Waffles!!!❤🥞
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Beautiful images 🙂
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Thanks 😊
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I always wonder about the lives of the people buried in cemeteries. Especially the really old tombstones. What were their lives like? I guess someday someone will be asking that about us… Great photos, Fraggle!
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Thanks Jess, I’m already writing my tombstone 😊
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Great shots. I do love a good wander around a graveyard, especially when I have my camera with me!
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Togger’s Paradise 😀
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